Wedding design can be very intriguing as it captures the couples love story and puts it on display for all their guests to see as they enter your wedding venue.
When choosing your theme, take some time to think about how you'll want to remember that day. You can browse countless websites and Pinterest boards for inspiration, but in the end, your theme should represent your taste and incorporate elements that feel true to who you are.
You want your wedding to include more than trendy decor and Instagram-worthy backdrops. Above all else, it should reflect who you are as a couple. All of the details should join together in perfect harmony, just like the two of you.
That’s why it’s essential to go for a theme that speaks to you and represents you and your partner, regardless of what other people think or the commercial outlets are recommending at the time.
If you’re having some difficulty picking a theme, set aside time to reflect on what your perfect wedding day looks like.
Sit down with your partner and ask each other these questions:
How did you dream about that day as a child?
Have you been to any weddings that took your breath away?
How do you want to feel as you walk down the aisle?
How do you want your guests to feel when they leave?
What kind of story are you trying to tell with the details and decor?
Once you’ve answered these questions, think about how you can use them to create a wedding theme that is specific to both of you.
To help you out, I've included the description of a few wedding themes I've created for our Posh Couples!
1. Fairytale Princess Wedding
The princess theme is all about creating that perfect fairytale moment between you and your Prince Charming. Touches such as light, sheer fabrics, twinkle lights, and black-tie outfits all contribute to a princess themed affair. This theme is for the bride that has dreamed of her wedding since the first time she saw Cinderella transform into a princess with a horse-drawn carriage. While this may seem like the hyper-feminine choice for a wedding theme, a groom who wants to feel like a knight in shining armor as he marries his princess will appreciate a fairytale come true.
Dreamy settings like a rose-laden courtyard, romantic winery or castle can make your wedding feel like a fairytale very effortlessly. However, you can incorporate royal touches to just about any venue by including bold flowers like white and red roses, chandeliers, and a dreamy centerpiece like a champagne fountain or striking floral arrangement.
2. Traditional or Classic Wedding
The classic wedding theme plays on a family tradition, a traditional wedding with a personal touch. Traditional styling like a rose petal lined church aisle and an elegantly decorated “bride and groom” table can evoke a traditional wedding feel.
The venue of a traditional wedding can be a function hall or a ballroom, but nearly any site can be transformed based on the bride and groom’s unique needs.
The couple that goes the traditional route tends to want a timeless aesthetic. That’s not to say that the wedding will be generic. Classic weddings are easy to modify and can always incorporate unique personal touches that add personality throughout the event. Think of them as a clean slate to build in elements of your personality.
3. Modern Minimalist Wedding
A modern minimalist theme plays heavily with clean lines and simple style elements. This theme is indeed the definition of “less is more” without being overly simple. Incorporating a fresh color palette with at least one neutral, as well as hints of mid-century modern decor will create the perfect mix of modern minimalism with a twist. This theme is perfect for couples with an edgy style sense and those who prefer clean and sleek aesthetics rather than over-the-top visuals. Look for a venue with simple architecture and strong lines like rooftops, glass houses or lofts to really accentuate the minimalism. A venue with wide open spaces that can be decorated with specially curated furniture and statement pieces will make the perfect backdrop for an upscale, minimalist affair.
When in Doubt, Ask for Help!
If event planning isn’t your thing, don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you’re having a hard time determining a look and feel for your wedding, ask your family or bridal party how they pictured it or how they see your style. It’s possible that they know your personality well enough to help you develop a vision of what your wedding could look like.
Of course, you may not want them to take the reins and plan the whole wedding, but using their thoughts as inspiration can help you get a clearer picture of your own vision for the day. If you have very creative friends or family, that’s an even bigger bonus. They’ll be able to be very descriptive and might help you articulate your own style if you are having a hard time putting a name on it.
Also, remember that you always have the option to hire a wedding planner to take care of these details for you. Wedding planners will have many ideas and tricks up their sleeves to make the day unique to you. It’s their job to get to know the type of feel you want your wedding to have. They will be able to show you specific examples and help you draw inspiration based on what is realistic for you and your partner.
The good news is, you don’t have to stress out about being creative when there are professionals - LIME ME - whose job it is to make your day feel perfect.
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Blessings,
DeJane' Hill, Creative Event Strategist
Office Tel: 404-438-1388
"Turning Events into Experiences"
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